you talk too much!

there's nothing like talking to someone to really lose interest in them. getting to know someone is the best way to not want to fuck them any more. see them as a human being with a mind of their own - fuck that's unattractive. if you can make it past a half-hour of chit chat and i still got a boner, then you must be a keeper

i don't want to see you as a person. i want to see you as an object. if i see you as a person, more often than not i won't like the person i discover or at least won't find it as sexy. or worse i will pity you and feel sorry for you. then you become a tiresome pity-fuck. Or, even worse (and even less-likely) than that - i will think you're awesome. then the pressure is on!

so, fuck first. chat later. that way i don't waste time becoming mates with someone who is a dud-fuck

you talk too much! in a work situation: stay silent.

let them think what they want to think. a client will fantasise about you and create whatever they want you to be in their head.

let them think you're some drug-dependant cock-whore. let them think you're secretly raising two kids and struggling to finish your degree. let them think you cry yourself to sleep every night hoping and praying some punter will come along and free you from your hellish life of prostitution

don't let them know about your Fabergé egg collection. don't let them know you lie on the sofa under your duvet every saturday night stuffing tim tams into your face while watching South Park. don't let them know you're just doing it to pay off your credit card

let them think what they want to think. there's nothing unsexier than the truth